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‘Lets Talk Family’ Sessions June and July 2021

Year of Reflection and Prayer to close with ‘Lets Talk Family’ Sessions

The Diocesan Pastoral Team is closing out the ‘Year of Reflection and Prayer’ in the diocese with four sessions of the “Let’s Talk Family” programme via Zoom over four weeks in June and early July. The programme was very successfully run in the diocese in 2018 in the lead up to the ‘World Meeting of Families’ in Dublin. It is an opportunity to reflect and share on family life in these challenging times.

 

 

The themes, dates, and times for the four sessions are as follows:

Session 1:  ‘God’s Dream for Love’ – Mon. 14th June 7pm – 8.30pm

Session 2:  ‘Married Love Growing to Maturity’ – Mon. 21st June 7pm – 8.30pm

Session 3: ‘God’s Mercy No one Excluded’ – Mon. 28th June 7pm – 8.30pm

Session 4:  ‘A Gospel of Hope for our Families’ – Mon. 5th July 7pm – 8.30pm

The Programme is free to all participants. Registration is essential and places are limited. Participants are required to provide a valid email address for the zoom link. To register contact Milanda at: [email protected]. The closing date for registration is Wednesday 9th June.

Ordination to the Priesthood of Callum Douglas Young and Juan Jesus Gonzalez Borrallo

Ordination to the Priesthood of Callum Douglas Young and Juan Jesus Gonzalez Borrallo

Archbishop Eamon Martin will ordain Callum Douglas Young and Juan Jesus Gonzalez Borrallo as priests for the Archdiocese of Armagh on the Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul Apostles in Saint Patrick’s Cathedral – Armagh on the 29th June 2021.

Callum was born in London in 1991. He is the eldest child of  Neil and Bernadette Young. He has five younger brothers and sisters. He began his formation for the priesthood in the Redemptoris Mater Seminary in Dundalk in the year 2012.

As part of his formation, he spent some time in the Holy Land, UAE and Bahrain. Over the years, Callum has been on pastoral placement in the parishes of Cookstown, Coalisland and Newry.

He was ordained deacon on 28th August 2020 and has been ministering in Newry Parish since October 2020.

 

Juan Jesus was born in 1991. He comes from El Repilado (Spain). He is the first child of Jose Antonio and Maria de las Nieves. He has three younger siblings. He started his formation to the priesthood in the Redemptoris Mater Seminary in Dundalk in the year 2013.

Juan Jesus has done pastoral placements in the parishes of Dungannon and Newry Cathedral. As part of his formation in the Seminary, he has been in mission in the Holy Land, Mozambique and Argentina.

He was ordained deacon on 28th August 2020 and has been ministering in Moyraverty Parish since October 2020.

 

Feast of the Blessed Trinity 30th May 2021, Bishop Michael Router Highlights the Work of ‘Towards Healing’

Feast of the Blessed Trinity 30th May 2021

Bishop Michael Router’s Sermon for Armagh Archdiocesan Pilgrimage to Knock 

Depicting the Trinity in an artistic form has been one of the great challenges for artists down through the centuries. God the Father is typically unseen, God the Holy Spirit stretches the symbols that represent him, and God the Son is more than just a man. It is difficult to capture in words the essence of three persons in one God, but it is equally difficult in imagery. One of my favourite depictions of the Trinity is by Andre Rublev, a Russian Orthodox monk who was born in the 14th Century. His icon is an interpretation of the episode from the book of Genesis where three men visit Abraham and Sarah and promise that they will give birth to a son. It is obvious, however, from the symbolism and positioning of the three men that Rublev was actually depicting the Trinity. The three are sitting around a table, dressed similarly and each carrying a staff representing their equality. There is, however, a display of deference to the figure on the left as both the figure in the centre and on the right bow slightly towards him indicating that he is the Father, the creator.

While the three men clearly form a circle, it is not a circle that is closed in on itself or one which excludes others, rather it is a circle of relationship and intimacy which opens and offers space for others to join and participate. When you as the spectator view the icon, you are invited in to be part of this intimate relationship and take your place in the family of God.

The icon tells us much about God, as revealed to us in Jesus Christ, that words in themselves certainly struggle to reveal. The God that Jesus Christ revealed is not a solitary or remote God. Jesus revealed that he is the Son of the Father and that after his return to the Father he would send us the Holy Spirit who would guide and support us in his family, the Church. As Saint Oscar Romero said in his sermon for the feast of the most Holy Trinity in 1979, “this is truly a great revelation. God is not a solitary being; God is three, God is family, God is communion”.He tells us that it is only when we see the God revealed to us in Jesus Christ reflected in and illuminating everything around us that “we understand that God has created a world out of love to give it to his children, with whom he wants to enter into the communion of family”.

Therefore, family is at the heart and centre of the perfect relationship of love that God reveals to us. It is modelled for us as well in the relationship of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, the Holy Family of Nazareth. The relationship between Joseph and Mary and between Jesus and his parents contributed to his formation and to the person he came to be. The appreciation and understanding of the vocations that Mary and Joseph had received were truly lived humanly by them, yet they gave themselves wholeheartedly to the task in the belief that something extraordinary and special was happening. It says so much to us of the important role that parents have in helping to bring to fruition God’s plan for the world.

As he hung on the cross, Jesus instructed John, the beloved disciple, to be Mary’s son and His mother to be John’s mother. In that way he was assigning Mary a mother’s role in all our lives. It is little wonder then that Mary is beloved by Catholics all over the world and that she in turn has such a close and deep relationship with us, a relationship that becomes especially tangible in places like Knock.

In this ‘Year of St. Joseph’ we also reflect with a new urgency on his role as the foster father of Jesus. We ponder on what he teaches us about the role of the father as protector, guide, and carer. This special year invites us to learn from Joseph’s quiet service born out of love and self-sacrifice. He was led in a relationship of trust with God to devote himself to Mary and Jesus.

One of the most remarkable features of the apparition here at Knock is that the Holy Family were all present. Jesus, as the Lamb of God, is present on the altar of sacrifice and Joseph stands to the left of Mary. The apparition at Knock involves not just the appearance of a solitary figure but a gathering of persons significant in our faith. The apparition was not to one person but to a large group of people, young and old, who were at the heart of this small community of Knock. The symbolism involved in what happened here, and the context in which it happened, reenforces the communal identity of the Church as a family of families. In addition, the specific family we emerge from, and the wider Christian family to which we belong, find their source and inspiration in the Trinity, and have a wider significance for the well-being and stability of society.

We live, however, in a world where human weakness and frailty erode the Christian ideal of human relationships that is placed before us. We strive, but inevitably fail, to live up to the ideal of relationship that is based on love, humility, and self-sacrifice. The Church itself, the family of God, is also very conscious, that it has sadly failed in its responsibility to provide safe shelter for or to protect its own members. Instead of reflecting the love that is at the heart of the Trinity, it has sometimes failed to live up to the values it stands for and professes.

We are all too aware that many people here in Ireland and abroad, have suffered sexual and physical abuse at the hands of clergy and religious. For too long they suffered in isolation, without being heard, acknowledged, or helped. Over the past twenty-five years, however, the Church has, through the organisation ‘Towards Healing’ that it funds, and its forerunner ‘Faoiseamh’, provided a counselling service that almost 7,000 people have availed of, survivors of institutional, clerical, and religious abuse and members of their families. The service has a network of counsellors in Ireland and abroad which it engages to provide essential therapy to those who have suffered such abuse. It is a free service available to survivors and one that is based on the values of compassion, empowerment, and hope. The compassion comes from a humble recognition of the trauma and suffering experienced by survivors and how it permeates all areas of their lives. ‘Towards Healing’ provides support that endeavours to empower survivors to reclaim and rebuild their lives. It gives them hope that they will find healing and develop the resilience to live their fullest possible lives.

Ultimately, every good family strives to provide such compassion, empowerment, and hope to its members. Such a family is a reflection of the work of the Trinity in our everyday lives. It is the essence of what Jesus, Mary and Joseph modelled for us in their family and it is our purpose as the family called Church. As a Church we have sometimes lost touch with what we are about and have ignored the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. When that happens, we can neglect to display the compassion that should be the kernel of how we operate. A Church without compassion only hurts and alienates people and robs them of confidence and hope.

So today, on this feast day, in this sacred place, loved by so many Irish people, let us pray for the Church in Ireland. As it embarks on its Synodal Pathway may it move closer to the image of our Trinitarian God and model the dialogue, openness and love that will help to heal the wounds of the past and move us forward together in hope.

Father, Son and Holy Spirit, lead and guide us.

Our Lady of Knock, Queen of Ireland, pray for us.

+ Bishop Michael Router

World Day of Prayer for the Sanctification of Priests, 11th June 2021

World Day of Prayer for the Sanctification of Priests

The World Day of Prayer for the Sanctification of Priests takes place annually on the Feast of the Sacred Heart, which this year falls on 11 June.  On that morning I will take part in the Worldpriest Global Rosary Relay by reciting the Glorious Mysteries at 8.30 am over the webcam in St Patrick’s Cathedral, Armagh, after the 8.00 am Mass. You may wish to share the attached poster of the event on social media platforms.

 

Pope Francis has given his Apostolic Blessing to this global event and has sent a message of appreciation to priests and commends them and all those praying for priests that day to the loving intercession of Our Lady of the Rosary.

Please set aside time on 11 June to pray for yourselves and your brother priests.

To access a PDF copy of Pope Benedict’s Prayer for Priests click here.

Virtual Pilgrimage to Knock 2021

Archdiocese of Armagh, Virtual Pilgrimage to Knock 2021

 

The Covid 19 pandemic has meant that we are again unable to travel to Knock as an Archdiocese in 2021.  The annual pilgrimage to Knock is a high point in the Archdiocesan Calendar that many look forward to and so Canon Fee and his committee has developed a Virtual Pilgrimage that will again be available online.

Pope Francis has dedicated this year to St. Joseph and so this year as we journey through our Virtual Pilgrimage we reflect on St. Joseph, his impact on the life of Jesus and the role he plays in each of our lives. 

You can access Archbishop Eamon’s Welcome, each of the daily reflections from five Churches dedicated to St. Joseph in the Archdiocese, and Bishop Michael’s mass streamed live from Knock by clicking any of the images or links below:

Pilgrimage Schedule

Tuesday 25th May 2021

8.30am: Welcome and opening reflection by Archbishop Eamon Martin

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Wednesday 26th May 2021

8.30am ‘The Annunciation’ from St. Joseph’s Church Caledon and led by Fr Cathal Deveney

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Thursday 27th May 2021

8.30am ‘The Visitation’ from St. Joseph’s Church Mell and led by Fr John McAlinden

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Friday 28th May 2021

8.30am ‘The Nativity’ from St. Joseph’s Church Tynan and led by Fr Sean Moore

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Saturday 29th May 2021

8.30am ‘The Presentation’ from St. Joseph’s Church Dundalk and led by Fr Noes Kehoe CSSR

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Sunday 30th May 2021

8.30am:  ‘The Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple’ from St. Joseph’s Church Castletown and led by Fr Oliver Stansfield

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2.30pm:  ‘The Rosary’ from Knock Shrine followed by mass  at 3pm Bishop Michael Router celebrated from Knock Basilica 

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Petitions and Prayer Intentions

Those who wish to offer petitions or prayers during our Virtual Pilgrimage can do so via the Archdiocesan Prayer wall.  We invite you to click the image below and submit your prayer intentions.  

 

To have a Candle lit at Knock for your intentions please click here or on the image below

 

Trócaire’s Prayer and Petition for Gaza

Trócaire’s Prayer and Petition for Gaza

We are all aware of the scale of the emergency in Gaza:  to date, 217 Palestinians have lost their lives along with 63 children and 1500 people are injured.  This devastating situation must end. 

Trócaire is meeting with the Irish Government tomorrow about the crisis. You might like to sign their online petition, and share widely – https://www.trocaire.org/gaza-in-crisis/

Here is an article written by one of  Trócaire’s partners in Gaza, Dr. Yasser Abu Jamei who leads the Gaza Community Mental Health Programme – https://www.trocaire.org/news/this-must-end/

 

Prayer Vigil for Gaza in your home

The nights are the hardest in Gaza due to the bombardments.  It is dark and people are scared, hungry, and cold.  As we look on with pain in our hearts, it is all too easy to feel hopeless, so we are inviting you to join us in offering light in the dark, to create connection, solidarity, and support for the people of Gaza. 

Our hope is to have a candle burning throughout the nights of this week from 8 pm to 8 am (10 to 10 in Gaza) and to virtually pass this on hour-to-hour to another home, connecting our homes with the people living in homes in Gaza. 

 How to participate

Light a candle and hold space in any way that feels right for you, for an hour this week. You may sit in quiet reflection, play some gentle music, read a little about the Palestinian people and their plight for justice, draw, write, pray, meditate. There is no right or wrong way, simply the intentional moving into connectedness with people in Gaza.

If you would like to share an image from your space  or a message of support, we will collate these at the end of the week and share them with our colleagues and friends in Gaza, and with all of us who are offering solidarity and support. 

If you can offer some time, please email Janet Twomey, Trócaire [email protected] and let her know the night and time that suits you.

 Thank you for your continued support and prayers for the people of Palestine.

 

Archdiocese of Armagh, Virtual Pilgrimage to Lourdes 2021

Archdiocese of Armagh, Virtual Pilgrimage to Lourdes 2021

The Covid 19 pandemic has meant that we are again unable to travel to Lourdes as an Archdiocese in 2021.  The annual pilgrimage to Lourdes is a point in the Archdiocesan year that many look forward to and so Fr Mark, Fr Michael and the Lourdes Pilgrimage committee has developed a Virtual Pilgrimage that will again be available online.  

 

You can access each of the Pilgrimage Masses, Holy Hours, Rosaries etc in this years programme by clicking any of the images or links below:

 

Virtual Pilgrimage Programme

 

Pilgrimage Schedule

Friday 7th May 2021

12 Noon: Words of Welcome and Mass from St. Brigid’s Shrine and Church Faughart

5pm: Rosary lead by Dr Sean McNichol, Pilgrimage Medical Director

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Saturday 8th May 2021

12 Noon: Mass of St. Bernadette, celebrated by Fr. Gerry Tremer, Cullyhanna

5pm: Rosary lead by Ann Forbes, Head of Nursing.

7pm: Torchlight Procession from St. Patrick’s Cathedral Armagh

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Sunday 9th May 2021

12 Noon: Mass celebrated by Bishop Michael Router from Holy Redeemer Church, Dundalk

5pm: Rosary lead by Cora Muckian, Head Handmaid

7pm:  Holy Hour, Fr John Gates, Church of Our Lady of the Assumption, Magherafelt​​

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Monday 10th May 2021

12 Noon: Healing Mass, Fr. Barry Matthews from Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Drogheda

5pm:  Rosary led by Head Brancardier Gabriel McGuigan

7pm: Outdoor Stations of the Cross led by Fr Garrett Campbell, Our Lady’s Grotto Maghery

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Tuesday 11th May 2021

12 Noon:  Mass of the Holy Rosary celebrated by Dean Kevin Donaghy, Dungannon

5pm: Rosary lead by Joe McCrystal, Central Council Secretary

7pm: Eucharistic Procession lead by Fr Aidan McCann, Keady.​

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Wednesday 12 May 2021

5pm: Rosary lead by Gerry Woods Central Council Treasurer

7.30pm: Mass from St. Patrick’s Cathedral Armagh celebrated by Archbishop Eamon Martin 

8.15pm: Closing words from Fr Mark O’Hagan​

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All Masses during our Virtual Pilgrimage will be offered up for those who have travelled to Lourdes with the Diocesan Pilgrimage throughout the years and for all our deceased pilgrims and volunteers.

A dedicated email account has been set up if anyone wishes to send in petitions which will then be printed off and placed in front of the Altar during the pilgrimage. The address is [email protected]

 Please note this account will be deleted after the 12th May 2021

 

Heartfelt hanks are extended to @www.stillpoint.photo for images used throughout the Virtual Pilgrimage videos.

Meeting Between Archbishop Eamon Martin and Minister Stephen Donnelly

Meeting Between Archbishop Eamon Martin and Minister Stephen Donnelly

Following contact from Minister Donnelly’s office today, Archbishop Eamon Martin had a meeting with the Minister this afternoon to discuss concerns that have arisen following the publication on Friday of SI 171/2021. Minister Donnelly was joined at the meeting by Dr Colette Bonner from the Office of the Chief Medical Officer. 

Archbishop Eamon Martin explained the deep concerns already expressed with regard to the criminalising of leading, and gathering for, public worship at this time in Ireland despite the consistent support from the Churches for public health messaging since the beginning of the pandemic.  He reiterated the Church’s support for the protection of health, life and for the Common Good and he emphasised the importance of respecting and sustaining people’s spiritual well-being alongside their physical and mental health. For people of faith, he added, this is deemed essential.

The Archbishop emphasised that the vital pastoral work of priests and other ministers on the ground should also be respected and deemed essential, rather than subject to penal sanction. Ministers of religion are often on the front line supporting the sick, the bereaved, the isolated and those who are struggling to cope. Pastoral ministry and spiritual support, which are so important for people during the time of pandemic, ought not to be confined to a small number of legally acceptable and “regulated activities”.

Archbishop Eamon Martin stressed the importance of regular and meaningful conversation and consultation between Church, State and public health advisers to ensure that there is mutual understanding and positive cooperation in supporting life and health during times like the Covid-19 crisis.

The Minister outlined that the Statutory Instrument was not intended to single out worship but was designed to regulate indoor and outdoor gatherings that might pose a risk. He said that religious worship and spiritual well-being were taken very seriously by government and consideration would be given to early re-opening of public worship in accordance with public health advice in the coming weeks.

The Archbishop said that he will meet with the other Archbishops to brief them on this exchange. Meanwhile the Church was seeking clarification and legal advice regarding the extent and implications of the Statutory Instrument.

 

+  Archbishop Eamon Martin

Archbishop of Armagh and Primate of All Ireland.

Homily of Bishop Michael Router at Mass for the Third Sunday of Easter preparing for International Parental Alienation Awareness Day

 

Homily of Bishop Michael Router at Mass for the Third Sunday of Easter

 

“Childhood is short and any substantial period of conflict and separation can lead to a parent missing significant moments in a child’s life such as First Communion and Confirmation”

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Peace be With You!

Jesus appears to his disciples in this morning’s gospel, and he greets them with the words, “Peace be with you”. In the post resurrection accounts featured in the gospels of Luke and John, Jesus uses this greeting five times. He uses it to calm the grave fears and agitation of his disciples that was brought about by the trauma of the crucifixion, its violence, and their subsequent dispersal.

Increase in Domestic Violence

We have all been through, to a greater or lesser degree, atraumatic experience in the past year. Covid-19 has presented many challenges to us as a society, through the stress on our health system and economy, and as individuals in our relationships and family life. Unfortunately, one of the manifestations of these challenges is a sharp increase in domestic violence. Calls to the Garda Síochána relating to violence in the home increased by 17% between March and November of 2020 (Irish Times 3/12/20) and there was a 5.3% increase in domestic abuse crimes in Northern Ireland in 2020 (Domestic Abuse Statistics www.psni.police.uk). The gift of peace that Jesus brings is much needed in international and national affairs, but it is also very much needed in our homes and in our hearts. Much of the difficulty, pain, and stress that the world endures emanates from the lack of peace in the hearts of men and women. We, therefore, constantly pray for the gift of peace. We know how easily it can be shattered.

Year of the Family

Pope Francis declared 2021 as the ‘Year of the Family’ to mark the 5th anniversary of the publication of his Post Synodal Exhortation ‘Amoris Laetitia’, the Joy of Love, and to highlight the importance of family in creating a strong foundation for a healthy and stable society. In his exhortation he says that “All Family life is a ‘shepherding’ in mercy. Each of us, by our love and care, leaves a mark on the life of others… seeking to bring out the best in them” (Par. 322). Therefore the family needs to be constantly supported so that its importance in human development is recognised and protected.

Difficulties in Family Life

This, however, does not overlook or fail to recognise, the grave difficulties that can emerge in family life from time to time. Human weakness will always give rise to conflict and misunderstanding which can lead to difficulties in trust and commitment. The internal and external pressures that married couples experience can lead to the breakdown of relationships that previously were loving and committed. Thankfully, most couples in this situation work hard to solve their problems and some engage in marriage counselling to rebuild their relationships. As Vice-President of Accord, the marriage preparation and counselling service, I know that many couples have sought the relationship counselling provided to help them find stability and a way forward.

Yet we all know that sometimes there is little prospect of a marriage relationship being repaired and this is difficult and painful for all concerned. Where there are children involved it adds a complexity that, if not handled sensitively, can have negative effects. It is incumbent on all parties to create an environment that is supportive to children and ensures that, where it is not threatening or abusive, they can maintain a relationship with both their mother and father.

Parental Alienation Awareness Day

Next Sunday, April 25th, is the International Parental Alienation Awareness day. This day highlights a particular form of domestic abuse that manifests itself in more subtle ways than physical or sexual violence. Parental alienation is a problem that has garnered increasing coverage by the media in recent times. On 20th March the Irish Examiner devoted considerable coverage to the issue in an extensive article titled ‘Parental alienation: Some days you wake up and think: ‘It’s like a living bereavement’, that included the views of a psychotherapist, a female and a male victim, and a solicitor.

Parental Alienation often takes place when one parent tries to distance his or her children from the other parent when a marriage or relationship ends. Sometimes it is justified for a child to be separated from a parent because of threatening behaviour. In the case of Parental Alienation, however, there is no such reason. The courts have recognised that the parent should have access to their children, yet the other parent refuses to allow it. Such a denial of the rights of children to have a loving relationship with both parents has long-lasting and damaging consequences for a child. It often involves being cut off from one side of the family including grandparents, who also suffer greatly as a result. As childhood is short and any substantial period of conflict and separation can lead to a parent missing significant moments in a child’s life such as First Communion and Confirmation. Such moments can never be repeated.

Support for Change

Over the past number of years thirty county councils and local authorities in the Republic of Ireland, and two in Northern Ireland, have recognised officially that this is a serious issue and have called for a change in the law to take into account situations where one parent is wrongly influencing their child or children against the other parent. The ‘Report on Reform of the Family Law System’, published in October 2019, recommended that the relevant changes be made to family law in Ireland to ensure that this doesn’t happen (p.50). I hope that such calls will be listened to and the necessary changes will be made. As Pope Francis states in ‘Amoris Laetitia’, “The Church, while appreciating the situations of conflict that are part of marriage, cannot fail to speak out on behalf of those who are most vulnerable: the children who often suffer in silence” (Par. 186).

Prayer for Peace

Changes in the law will, of course, be very helpful, but they alone won’t always be effective in dealing with difficult and painful situations within families. We as followers of Christ know that genuine peace comes through trust in him and in recognising his presence among us even when we are afraid or agitated. As we approach the International Parental Alienation Awareness Day next week, we redouble our efforts to pray for peace in families where trust and goodwill have been shattered. The first words Jesus says to his disciples in today’s gospel are “Peace, be with you”. Peace can often be sadly lacking in our communities and our families. We pray for all parents and for children so that even in difficult situations they may know the peace that the risen Christ brings to them and may turn to him for solace, comfort, and healing. 

+ Bishop Michael Router

(This Mass was celebrated today in Saint James Church, Grange, Co Louth, in the Archdiocese of Armagh.)

 

 

Life in the Spirit Seminars

Our Lady Queen of Peace prayer group are hosting eight Life in the Spirit seminars in St. Mary’s Church, Knockbridge.  See poster for more details.